simon m wrote:I'm going camping in a minute, so ate with my daughter who fancied this
See, I think that this is the real issue: when you're alone you can eat whatever you want, and be as strict as you want, but when you're part of a family it all becomes a matter of compromises: even accepting to cook each meal twice (normal people and fanatic version) wouldn't seeing yummy food pass in front of you at all times drive you more insane on a strict diet when you don't allow yourself any leeway?
Rab wrote:The Cheshire cat explained with her situation negotiating degrees of change at a time with her mentor and hubby Craig aka Charlie Brown

She has done outstanding.
The cat is STILL doing outstanding: after a very depressing day at work I am eating oatcakes instead of Jaffa cakes, that's the power of small changes
I think that both you and Karlos are right in a way: different solutions suit different people and different situations.
Simon doesn't need to learn new habits, and he's not in a hurry so he choses a compromise that will also allow him to be able to eat with the rest of his family, there's nothing wrong with that!
BUT I had to take abandon all gluten when I met Craig, so an "all out war" is not necessarily impossible, only very harsh!
(I say this while happily munching on gluten-loaded oatcakes

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Craig: "you're like my own MILF, only with no kids".